Clinical hypnotherapist · 25+ years · UK
Clinical hypnotherapy for men's psychosexual health.
Confidential support for erectile difficulties, premature ejaculation, performance anxiety, intimacy problems and sexual confidence — practical, direct and judgement-free.
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Many men wait years before seeking help. Sexual difficulties are common — and they are often driven by anxiety, habit, shame, relationship strain or the mind–body connection, not simply "something wrong with you."
I am Dante Harker, a clinical hypnotherapist specialising in men's psychosexual health. I also teach this work to other therapists. Sessions are private, respectful and focused on change you can notice in real life.
What I help men with
Erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, performance anxiety, difficulty reaching orgasm, loss of desire, body image concerns, intimacy avoidance after health changes, and the shame that often sits underneath.
See the full list and how we work on men's psychosexual health.
Why clinical hypnotherapy
Sexual difficulties are rarely only "in your head" — but the nervous system, expectations and old patterns often keep problems running even when you want things to be different.
Clinical hypnotherapy helps calm the performance spiral, reframe unhelpful beliefs, and build confidence and control in a structured, evidence-informed way — without mystique or endless talking in circles.
A wider clinical toolkit
When the issue is complex, I draw on psychosexual therapy, NLP, parts work, counselling skills, trauma-informed practice, EFT and lifestyle factors — backed by qualifications in clinical hypnosis, psychotherapy, coaching, nutrition and fitness.
Full background on About · approach and fit on Why work with Dante?
You do not need to explain everything in writing. Saying you would like to talk about men's sexual health is enough.
FAQs
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What does clinical hypnotherapy for men's psychosexual health help with?
Erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, performance anxiety, anorgasmia, body image concerns, intimacy difficulties and sexual confidence. We choose what fits your situation — clinical hypnotherapy first, with psychosexual therapy, NLP, parts work and other tools when useful.
More detail on specific issues: men's psychosexual health.
Do I have to explain everything before we speak?
No. It is enough to say you would like a confidential conversation about men's sexual health or psychosexual difficulties. We take it from there at a pace that suits you.
Is what I share confidential?
Yes. Sessions are confidential and judgement-free, with the standard legal and safeguarding exceptions described on the confidentiality page.
How do sessions work — in person, online, how often?
I am UK-based. We usually start with a private first conversation by phone, WhatsApp, text or email — whichever feels most comfortable.
Ongoing sessions (how often, and in person vs remote) are agreed together around your diary and what you are working on.
How much does therapy cost?
An individual session is £80. A block of four sessions is £280 (£70 per session). Lower-cost options may be available for students or those on a low income — see booking and prices.
How do I get started?
Email, WhatsApp or phone for a private first conversation. Use the contact page or see booking and prices for fees and practicalities.
Client reviews
Specialist work, handled with care
The sessions on men's sexual health were handled with incredible sensitivity and professionalism. I feel much more confident and at peace with myself now.
I finally feel like I have a handle on my anxiety after years of trying different therapists. The integrated approach Dante uses made all the difference for me.
Dante's approach is refreshingly direct and deeply supportive. Practical strategies that actually worked — not vague reassurance.
How sessions work
We start with a private first conversation — phone, WhatsApp, text or email, whichever feels easiest. You can keep the first message brief.
Ongoing work is confidential, structured and practical: we identify what keeps repeating, what you want instead, and what to practise between sessions. I am UK-based; session format and frequency are agreed around your diary.
I teach men's psychosexual health to therapists via Gold Leaf Training — this is specialist work, not a general "life coaching" sideline.
Why this is different from generic therapy
Men often arrive embarrassed, convinced they are alone, or worried they will have to describe everything in detail before they know if I am the right person. You won't be judged. This is a specialist area I have worked in for over 25 years.
I am a registered clinical hypnotherapist (NCH) with training in psychosexual therapy, counselling and integrative psychotherapy, NLP, parts work and more — so when anxiety, relationship strain, trauma echoes or lifestyle factors are part of the picture, we can address them properly.
My style is direct and human: plain language, clear next steps, and work that continues between sessions where that helps. If something needs medical investigation, we say so and signpost appropriately — this is therapeutic work, not a substitute for medical care where that applies.
Read qualifications and experience, or who this approach suits, before you get in touch if that helps you decide.
Specialist work deserves a space where nothing needs to be minimised — and where practical change is the point.